Some people have the money to flaunt designer goods to the waiting paparazzi, get their photo in the magazines, for the judging eyes of the general public, and sometimes suffer the most scathing put-downs for the slightest error of judgement in choice of a simple thing like a handbag. Pity. But it’s their life, and we comfort ourselves that they chose it, and are rich enough to ignore the insults.
But if your choice of handbag is of interest to nobody but yourself, and your immediate friends, don’t allow yourself to feel like you have to follow the advice of the gossip columns and go for this season’s latest trend. Get what you like. So if a designer handbag will bring you eternal joy, brilliant, save up those pennies, and get one. But don’t expect to able to afford anything to put in it afterwards.
But personally, I can entertain the dream of an expensive item, without actually having to own it, and settle for the next level down, be it a copy, the cheaper equivalent to match the style, or the quite mundane, practical, unfashionable, ethical, whatever. I’d buy almost anything, if I knew I wasn’t simply maintaining the elaborate lifestyle of a designer. My money is more important to me than that.
But that’s just me. If you have to go designer to get a quality product for your money, then do it. Absolutely. Don’t be duped into thinking that cheap always means good value. It’s rarely true. But if you are paying a fortune, have the assertion to check you’re getting something worth having, rather than feeling you’ve bought into a fad. You want to be able to show off your handbag in the best society and feel amazing, for more than a week. And then rediscover it in a wardrobe in a decade or so, and find that you have a vintage classic on your hands. Or sell it, get back some of what you paid, and move on to your next conquest.
Watch out for scammers though. Pirate goods are big business these days. Unless you really know your market, it’s easy to be caught out, so be careful. Always get what you paid for. It’s your right as a person. And really annoying if you don’t. It is, however, a good topic for a rant down the pub!